子曰:“吾十有五而志于学,三十而立,四十而不惑,五十而知天命,六十而耳顺,七十而从心所欲,不逾矩。”
The Master said, "At fifteen, I had my mind bent on learning. "At thirty, I stood firm. "At forty, I had no doubts. "At fifty, I knew the decrees of Heaven. "At sixty, my ear was an obedient organ for
损人即自损也,爱人即自爱也。——黄宗羲
Damage others is damage your own, take good care of others is to take good care of your own.
释义:损害别人,就是损害自己;爱护别人,就是爱护自己。
若是将别人的隐私揭露并宣扬,则将使人无地自容,也造成了彼此间的怨隙。
这是相当不值得的,而且也损及了自己的私德。
至于别人与你有过怨隙、过节,我们当有结束纷争的修养,予以宽恕,而不是再将它扩大。